In 2023, we began a new monthly series delving into the MIDDLE MANAGER. Previously, we discussed the challenges faced by middle managers, some key managers’ desires and potential solutions, how to explain HR to managers, 1st-time managers often are ill-prepared for their new role, and Caring for Caregivers: A Manager’s Guide to Supporting Employees in Their Caregiving Roles. We will continue to reflect on the evolving nature of work in today’s dynamic business environment and how we can support our middle managers.
This month let’s look into Tips for New Managers Who Are Now Supervising Their Former Peers.
Taking on a management role, especially one that involves supervising former co-workers, requires navigating the shift from peer relationships to manager-employee dynamics. It can be a challenging shift.
It is important to set boundaries in order to differentiate your managerial role from your previous peer relationship. It is critical from the beginning of the new role you emphasize that your previous personal relationship will not and cannot influence work decisions. Understand that the transition may be challenging for both you and your former peers. You may continue to socialize after work, however, keep the conversation away from work-related topics and focus on personal interests. Conflicts may arise, and it’s important to address them promptly and professionally. Use conflict resolution skills to find amicable solutions, and don’t let personal history affect your ability to handle disputes objectively. This will help maintain a professional environment and minimize confusion.
It is imperative that you are not seen as playing favorites. Treat everyone on the team fairly and consistently. Avoid favoritism and ensure that decisions are based on merit. Not only will this outlook prevent discrimination claims, it will also prevent tension among employees. You should provide consistent feedback and suggestions for improvement to ensure fair employee development. Clearly articulate expectations, provide constructive feedback, and actively listen to your team members. While maintaining professionalism, continue to build positive relationships with your team. This will help build trust among team members and prevent resentment.
Effective communication is crucial. In order to ease tension, acknowledge any awkwardness upfront. It is important to encourage open communication and seek feedback from your team. This will help you understand their perspectives, address concerns, and foster a collaborative work environment. It also helps you understand their strengths, weaknesses, and career goals in order to help you lead them effectively. Be sincere about the challenges and set ground rules transparently without coming across as heavy-handed.
Also, you should clearly demonstrate your commitment and seriousness to your role as manager. Using humor might ease difficult conversations, unfortunately, humor can also undermine your leadership role. Be gentle but firm to maintain the seriousness of counseling or disciplinary actions, earning employees’ respect.
Lastly, don’t hesitate to ask for help from other experienced managers who have faced similar situations. Recognize that management is an ongoing learning process. Stay open to feedback, learn from your experiences, and continuously seek opportunities for personal and professional growth. Mentors also can provide valuable insights and guidance.
By managing former peers consistently, fairly, and respectfully while separating personal and professional relationships, a new manager can navigate this transition effectively. Remember, the key is to balance authority with approachability and to foster a positive work environment where everyone feels valued and supported.
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Read more from our MIDDLE MANAGERS SERIES:
The challenges faced by middle managers
Some key managers’ desires and potential solutions
1st-time managers often are ill-prepared for their new role
Caring for Caregivers: A Manager’s Guide to Supporting Employees in Their Caregiving Roles
Tips for New Managers Who Are Now Supervising Their Former Peers
Managing Difficult Employees and Disruptive Behaviors: A Comprehensive Guide for HR Professionals